Luuux

Everyone loves a beautiful bride. Well, that is until they turn into a Bridezilla.
If you have ever been a part of a wedding in any form or have you been a bridesmaids or even a maid of honor, then you have probably had an experience or two with a demanding bride.

Hopefully your experience was exciting, upbeat and memorable but chances are it was not at all like that. If you like many members of a wedding, you probably cursed the day you even accepted the invitation to be a part of the nuptials.

I am not married and have not been married yet but one thing I hope that never happens is that I become a bridezilla?

Oh my God. I have watched many normal loving women become monsters when they are planning their wedding. My question is, isn’t this supposed to be a beautiful day? Isn’t this supposed to be about love and living the rest of your life with someone special? When I see the abuse that a bride to be gives her wedding party I am floored and amazed as to how these people even manage to stay a part of this event.
Bridezilla usually are all the same. They have a tremendous on them or better yet they put stress on themselves then pass it onto others. They are:

Extremely abusive – I have seen bridezilla yell at the their maid of honor, their mates and even their parents

Self-centered – Even though it is their wedding, they are not keeping in my mind that they people they love are taking the time out of their life to help them

Ungrateful – It seems like no matter what anyone does, it is not enough to make them happy.

Petty and childish – I have seen some bridezilla hit below the belt with some of the comments they make to the people around them.

In the end, I do wonder if it is even necessary to put themselves and others through all this drama for one day. The event is not even one day. The wedding is normally less than a half hour and the reception might be 4 hours long. So after months of torture and abuse to your friends and family, they get to share a 6 hour event with you. The question is: Was it worth it? I mean, of course the marriage and being with the love of your life is worth it, but was the actual planning of the wedding? Also, if you feel that way, have you taken the time to apologize to family and friends for the abuse and drama? Hopefully you have taken the time to do so, because while weddings are nice, the planning is not often an easy thing. It can be challenging to all involved but if there is anything I have learned from a Bridezilla and that is to either go to city hall or to save enough money to have a planner do everything for me and give everyone else a break.